The Boundary Babes Handbook is your empowering, no-nonsense guide to setting boundaries without guilt, reclaiming your time, energy, and emotional space—while still being the kind, compassionate woman you are. This book is for women who’ve spent too long saying “yes” when they really meant “no,” and are ready to finally put themselves first without the fear of being called selfish, rude, or “too much.”
Written with empathy and encouragement, this handbook helps you release the people-pleasing patterns that have kept you stuck, and step into your power with clarity and confidence.
Who This Ebook Is For:
- Women who struggle to say no—even when they’re overwhelmed
- People-pleasers who want to reclaim their voice without losing their kindness
- Anyone who feels drained, taken for granted, or like they’ve lost sight of their own needs
What This Ebook Helps You With:
- Understanding why boundaries are essential for self-worth and wellbeing
- Setting clear, kind, and firm boundaries in all areas of life
- Communicating boundaries without guilt
- Letting go of the fear of disappointing others and embracing self-respect
Chapter Breakdown:
Chapter 1: Why Boundaries Are the Ultimate Form of Self-Respect
- The difference between walls and boundaries
- How boundaries protect your energy, time, and peace
- Why women especially struggle with boundary-setting
Chapter 2: Understanding Your Boundary Style
- The three common boundary patterns: porous, rigid, and healthy
- How your past shaped your boundary beliefs
- Identifying your personal boundary struggles
Chapter 3: Releasing People-Pleasing & Guilt
- Where guilt comes from and how to reframe it
- Rewriting the “good girl” narrative
- Affirmations and mindset shifts for guilt-free boundaries
Chapter 4: Communicating Boundaries with Clarity
- Scripts and sentence starters for setting boundaries
- What to do when someone pushes back
- Practicing assertiveness without aggression
Chapter 5: Setting Boundaries in Every Area of Life
- Boundaries with family, friends, work, and romantic relationships
- Creating emotional, physical, digital, and energetic boundaries
- How to handle boundary violations
Chapter 6: When They Don’t Like Your Boundaries
- Navigating discomfort and backlash
- Staying firm without needing others’ approval
- Recognising manipulative responses (gaslighting, guilt-tripping, etc.)
Chapter 7: Living Like a Boundary Babe
- Becoming the woman who protects her peace
- Daily practices to maintain strong boundaries
- Confidence, clarity, and calm in action
Final Chapter: You Don’t Owe Anyone Your Exhaustion
- Honouring your needs unapologetically
- Giving yourself permission to be powerful
- The boundary babe mindset shift